THERAPY FOR WOMEN
Online Therapy in Maryland For Moms
A safe space to cry, laugh, heal and discover what’s next for you.
Ever felt you were a married single mom doing all the things alone without support?
Everyone sold you the bliss and not the reality of motherhood. You never thought your spouse would teach you how to be a single mom. You both wanted children yet you’re the one feeling alone because he barely helps, or you feel like you’re his mom cleaning after him.
Sometimes you feel you want a divorce and other times you feel it will all resolve itself.
Other times you just feel an Immense amount of inner conflict and guilt for wanting to leave because you’re not being physically abused or cheated on.
You worry about potential judgement you would face from your friends and family. So you stay put.
You worry about the impacts divorce would bring to your children, so you stay put.
You know deep down that you want to shift this aspect of motherhood, yet you don’t know where to start because it all feels so draining.
You’re ready to tap into the thoughts, feelings and beliefs that are holding you back from being the mom and woman you want to be, and feel you need a little support to get you going.
Hi, I’m toresa & I can help.
I empower moms to break the married single mom cycle so you can finally start finding your hobbies/passions and putting yourself first without feeling guilty.
My clients walk away from sessions with clarity and strategies on how to move forward in a way that makes sense for her.
SPECIALIZING IN HELPING MOMS WITH…
Feeling like a married single mom
There are countless women living life married, but feeling single because their spouse would rather take five hour shits, go to the gym and ignore the kid and home needs. It can feel overwhelming, lonely and super frustrating to be in this position. Maybe in the beginning your partner was amazing then you were left feeling like WTF because you’re living a life you did not expect.
During our intensive session we will discuss the dynamics of your relationship. I know you likely have conflicting feelings of staying or divorcing… and probably feel guilty for your feelings. I assume you’re worried about being judged if you want to divorce because you’re not being verbally or physically abused. You probably also worried about what your kids will think of you later on in life; or the trauma you will inflict on them from making them “go through a divorce”. I urge you to also think about what they experience as they live the married single mom dynamic with you.
Breaking the married single mom dynamic doesn’t mean you have to get a divorce, and it doesn’t mean you have stay. That’s your choice, and only your choice. My goal is to help you gain clarity and learn how to put yourself first, both without feeling guilty.
JUDGEMENT FREE ZONE
Receive support, compassion and grace each week as you start to rewrite your stories about motherhood. You can cry, laugh, curse (my personal favorite is fuck). If you curse- we will definitely mesh well.
LIFE TRANSFORMATION
Together we will navigate how you’re actually feeling, no cut cards and what you want to do about it. We will work a lot on your feelings of guilt so you can feel more peaceful.